My Reflections on 30

Laura recently wrote a blog entry about my 30th birthday. The passing of a decade seems to bring forth special meaning for many people. However, I don't feel any different 1 week later than I did on my birthday or the 2 weeks before. But I have paused to reflect...

And as I reflect, I cannot help but be reminded of how blessed I have been over the last 10 years. The 20s are a time when you take your established beliefs out into the real world on your own. Independent adulthood becomes a reality with your own bills and paychecks, worldview, and decision-making. Course choices at a university transition to career choices and job searches—ultimately life choices. At 21, I was blessed to marry Laura while I finished my senior year of college. At 22, I entered my first teaching job, not really knowing where I was headed. At 25, we moved to Korea. I was teaching a PE class and part-time assistant principal, which quickly became full-time. At 26, Kacy was born. A month later I finished my master's degree after spending 2 summers in southern France, getting my first taste of Europe. At 28, I started taking doctorate coursework. At 29, Sara was born. And that is a only a few highlights.

Spanning 10 years, 3 continents, approximately 13 countries, 2 children and a beautiful wife, the 20's were eventful. I had rich experiences that have changed me forever. I have a fantastic family that I love more deeply all the time. I have wonderful friends across the globe. I have gained confidence and perspective on so many things. The sacrifices seem menial in the grander scope of where God has brought us. I have begun to realize how much about life I truly don't know and probably never will. God has given us so much—we are indeed blessed!

What will the next decade bring? I can't tell the future, but I pray God will continue to bless us. And when I say bless, I don't mean make everything perfect. Sometimes the tough times are the blessing. May God change us and mold us to be the people/family He wants us to be, bringing Him glory in all we do. I hope you can say the same.